Writing has always been an avenue through which I untangle my thoughts, process whirlwinds of emotions, and connect with myself in the most honest way I know how. I have journals from when I was 7 or 8 years old – child-like narratives of what I did in school and what I had for recess. How much I hated this teacher. How I wished that classmate would talk to me. My therapist once marvelled at how I managed to find this form of resource from such a young age. It must have been inspired by one of the books I read as a child – perhaps Harriet the Spy – that gave me the idea that words have power, and I can use that power of expression for myself. Perhaps it was a natural response for a child who had multitudes of emotions that couldn’t find safe spaces for expression, and hence became words, writing, and eventually other forms of art.
Depending on the season of life, writing for the eyes of strangers on the internet has served different purposes. At one point I could honestly say I wasn’t writing for anyone but myself. But that changed at some point too – We are social creatures after all, and do not operate in a vacuum separate from how others may perceive us. Perhaps it was the self-consciousness that paralysed me to some extent, and the use of this platform for expression hence dwindled.
On top of that, I found other avenues of expression. Journaling, art-making, Instagram, therapy, real-life friends and relationships have all supported me through different seasons of life. This blog has become but one of the many tools I can say I feel thankful to have.
And maybe, every once in a while, when inspiration hits, it feels nice to know I still have this space to come back to. To spill random thoughts into the void of the internet in the form of words and paragraphs.